Business “Mentorship” (Often) Wastes Time – But “Obsession” Gets Big Results
Let's be real — grinding away to grow your business can feel like an uphill battle some days, am I right?
If you want to grow your business and rake in the big bucks, everyone says to find a mentor — someone killing it who can guide you to success.
But pause for a sec…
That advice needs a reality check.
The problem with consuming mentorship gospel?
Most mentor-types don't have the same perspective or experience as you, the budding entrepreneur hustling 24/7.
When I was 19, I sat through talks by wealthy alumni bragging about their work-life balance. I was annoyed AF.
Building a startup means extreme obsession, not balance!
The truth is, an obsessive drive is what really unlocks wild business growth. Mentors preach moderation, but I'm here to say: being freakishly obsessed with your work is the real key.
Are you ready to ditch the distractions and finally embrace the maniacal obsession mindset?
- You'll discover the psychology behind an intense "founder focus" state
- How an obsessive drive paleies the impact of any guru or mentor
- Surprising brain hacks to maximize your motivation and creativity
- The counterintuitive path to unlocking explosive business growth
Ready to unlock the secrets to entrepreneurial achievement? Let's explore further.
Obsession Fuels the Fire
Listen, I get it — obsession seems like a dirty word. It reeks of hustle-porn and creepy self-help gurus.
But stick with me here...being legitimately obsessed with your work is a superpower.
It means finding that blazing motivation to solve problems and grind away relentlessly. It's marrying drive and play that turns your work into the reward itself.
You get insane fulfillment from the very act of making progress.
Does it mean pulling unhealthy 20 hour days? Hell no! It means harnessing an intense, sustainable focus.
For me, it looks like this:
- Wake Up & Grind: Code intensely 2-3 hours
- Recharge: Take a break, fuel up
- Binge Mode (If Needed): Crank 16 hour work day
It's work, but it's also pure fun.
The Psychology of Obsession
What's happening in the brain when we become obsessed?
Turns out, hyperfocus and drive create a feedback loop of satisfaction and motivation:
- Dopamine Surge: Taking action causes rewarding dopamine release.
- Crave Repetition: You subconsciously crave that hit again.
- Motivation Replenishes: Desire to act increases.
It's basically like a human version of being a cat chasing a laser pointer! According to Dr. Anna Lembke at Stanford, this dopamine loop can be incredibly productive… if channeled properly toward meaningful work.
The key is balancing that obsessive hunger with intentional breaks and self-awareness. With practice, you can “gameify” your obsession into a healthily addicted state of hyperfocus.
The Perfectionism Trap
Of course, there's a danger of falling into the perfectionism trap.
You may get stuck in an endless loop of making tiny tweaks, always thinking you're missing something. That's a thought prison that blocks real progress.
Beat Paralysis Through:
- Rest & Reset: Give your subconscious a break
- Creative Unleashing: Let epiphanies flow naturally
- Intentional Pondering: Explore solutions pre-sleep
The antidote?
Taking intentional breaks to give your subconscious mind room to work.
Sounds woo-woo, but it's backed by research from top psychologists. Legendary minds like Charles Darwin used this strategy: He worked just 4 hours per day, then spent time on lighter tasks to let his subconscious connect ideas underneath.
For me, I find solutions randomly pop into my head when doing chores, walking, or even sleeping. That's the subconscious at work!
So write down the problems vexing you before bed.
The Insane Power of Taking Action
All that said, obsessive thinking alone won't cut it.
You have to pair it with relentless action and real-world progress. During one 1.5 year coding obsession, I consistently chunked away at building prototypes testing my theories around AI development.
Some days I'd wake up and just code, code, code for hours on end.
Other days were more about mapping strategy. But no matter what, I maintained extreme focus and forward momentum.
The magic came from blending that intense thought-work with consistent quantitative action.
Don't just plan and ponder — that's a path to nowhere. Unleash your obsession through building and executing day after day.
Avoid Analysis Paralysis At All Costs:
- Thought Cycles Are Jails: Don't get trapped in your own mind
- Prioritize Doing Over Perfecting: Consistent progress > perfect planning
- Stay Agile & Let the Market Guide You: Your users show you the way
The Power of Micro-Obsessions
Not feeling the obsession over one massive, overwhelming goal? That's ok — you can actually be productive by cultivating micro-obsessions instead.
Micro-Obsessions:
- Short-term, limited scope
- Hyper-focused for days/weeks at a time
- Repetitive progress toward small wins
Focusing intensely on bite-sized goals can rewire your brain's obsession circuits without the risk of burnout. Every micro-success creates a cascade of motivation to power you toward bigger achievements.
For example, you could get addicted to making the best landing pages in your industry, spending weeks obsessing over copywriting tricks and design principles until you have an optimized system. Then move that obsession toward the next critical area.
Let the market guide where you should obsess — but never lose that addictive hunger for incremental progress.
Let the Market Be Your Mentor
Here's the real talk: Most entrepreneurs are way too obsessed with finding a mentor in the first place! It lowkey reeks of insecurity and trying to copy someone else's success formula.
My proposal?
Let the market itself be your mentor.
Watch how customers and users actually respond to your product or service. Their real-world feedback, behaviors, and $$ spent are the most valuable data you can get.
A study by Salesforce found that 73% of consumers globally expect companies to recognize and cater to their individual needs and expectations.
Stop chasing fake guru promises and get addicted to learning from the market instead.
Sure, seek out advice and expertise when needed. But at the end of the day, you have to carve your own unique path.
No mentor can hand you that - only your competitive obsession with understanding your market can guide you.
Conclusion
The glorification of mentorship often peddles a convenient fantasy — that there's some older, wiser guru who can simply hand you their pre-packaged success blueprint.
But true builders know, that's BS.
The real path to unleashing your full potential? Becoming obsessed — marrying intense drive with creative flow.
- Attack each day with maniacal focus, but balance that with productive rest periods.
- Ground your obsession in quantitative action, not just thought-loops.
- And most importantly, let your obsession take the form of a relentless drive to understand your market's deepest needs and desires.
With that voracious hunger to grow your mastery, no mentor can hold a candle to you.
According to Steve Jobs, the #1 trait that separates successful entrepreneurs from the pack is passion and perseverance. It's what propels the extraordinary among us beyond every roadblock and setback.
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Image credits:
1. https://www.smart-break.com/blog/why-take-breaks/
2. https://fastercapital.com/topics/why-do-we-experience-analysis-paralysis-and-information-overload.html
3. https://www.emarketer.com/chart/256614/Attitude-of-Consumers-Worldwide-Toward-Personalization-Customer-Experience-Provided-by-Company-2020-2022-of-respondents
